Feel Like a Fraud? It’s Time to Flip the Script
Stop doubting your voice—here’s how to own it and grow your confidence.
"If I waited for perfection, I would never write a word." – Margaret Atwood
You Belong Here
Ever feel like everyone’s one step away from ‘finding out’ you don’t belong?
You’re not alone. Impostor syndrome is basically a rite of passage for anyone stepping into new territory—whether it’s your first job, a new role, or just trying to prove yourself.
But here’s the deal: your voice matters, and you do belong.
This week, we’re diving into how to quiet the doubts, trust yourself, and show up like the leader you’re meant to be.
Quick Bites
Doubt keeps you stuck. Leadership is about moving forward, even when you're unsure.
Confidence isn’t knowing everything—it’s taking action and learning as you go.
To beat self-doubt, lead by example. Action takes away doubt's power.
Create
Imposter Syndrome is More Common Than You Think
The Big Picture: Impostor syndrome doesn’t just hold you back—it blocks your creativity. Doubt stifles ideas, problem-solving, and your unique voice. But here’s the secret: that discomfort means you’re growing. The most creative people you admire pushed through their doubts. Use that feeling as a signal—it’s time to make, build, and share what only you can.This article from Verywell Mind dives into the numbers and explains why so many people feel this way. Read more here.
Why It Matters: Impostor syndrome doesn’t just hold you back—it blocks your creativity. Doubt stifles ideas, problem-solving, and your unique voice. But here’s the secret: that discomfort means you’re growing. The most creative people you admire pushed through their doubts. Use that feeling as a signal—it’s time to make, build, and share what only you can.
Grow
Mentors: Your Shortcut to Confidence and Growth
The Big Picture: Ever feel like you’re faking it? You’re not alone. Impostor syndrome hits hard, but a mentor can change the game. They offer fresh insights, validate your abilities, and help you see strengths you might miss.This article from Psychology Today dives deeper into how mentors can help beat self-doubt and boost your confidence. Read it here.
Why It Matters: Starting your career can feel like a maze. Mentors guide the way with insights and feedback, helping you grow faster and smarter. Confidence doesn’t happen alone—grab coffee with someone who’s been there, ask questions, and soak it all in. Your future self will thank you.
Lead
Why Being Real Is the Key to Leading Well
The Big Picture: In today's workplace, authenticity isn't just appreciated—it's essential. Authentic leaders are genuine, transparent, and true to their values, fostering trust and collaboration within their teams. As highlighted in a recent article by the Center for Creative Leadership, embracing authenticity in leadership leads to increased trust, improved team collaboration, and higher employee engagement.
Why It Matters: Authenticity isn’t optional—it’s essential. Genuine leaders build trust, foster collaboration, and drive success. Embracing authentic leadership is crucial for personal and professional growth. By being true to yourself and transparent with your team, you build trust and create an environment where everyone feels valued and heard.
Weekly Tools & Tips
Resource Spotlight: Free Worksheet: Overcoming Impostor Syndrome
Quick Tip: When doubt creeps in, ask: “What would I say to a friend in my shoes?” Then follow that advice.
3 Simple Exercises to Tackle Impostor Syndrome:
The Daily Wins List -
- What to Do: At the end of each day, write down 3 things you accomplished, no matter how small.
- Why It Works: This builds a habit of focusing on your strengths and what you’ve done right instead of obsessing over perceived shortcomings. Over time, you’ll develop a stronger sense of your own contributions.
The Confidence File-
- What to Do: Create a folder—digital or physical—where you save positive feedback, thank-you notes, or successful project examples. Whenever doubt creeps in, revisit your file for a quick confidence boost.
- Why It Works: Seeing proof of your achievements can counteract feelings of self-doubt and remind you of the value you bring.
The “Flip the Script” Technique -
- What to Do: When impostor thoughts show up (“I don’t belong here”), pause and reframe them into empowering statements. For example, replace “I’m not good enough” with “I’m learning and growing every day.”
- Why It Works: Challenging negative self-talk helps retrain your brain to focus on progress and potential instead of failure.
ICYMI
“Fake it til you make it,” the interns struggle with imposter syndrome (The Eye Opener)
Real-life experiences of imposter syndrome and among famous people(MSN)
The 5-Second Rule to Tackle Doubt and Take Action (YouTube)
Get Social
“Imposter syndrome confirms you’re in the right place.” —Dan Martell (IG)
“F your imposter syndrome, it doesn't own you.” —foundr (IG)
“How capable you think you are vs how capable you really are.” —valuethe.mind (IG)
Pep Talk
Everyone feels like an impostor sometimes, but the secret is this: the ones who succeed don’t wait for the doubt to go away. They take the next step anyway. You can too.
Wrap Up
Thanks for reading! If there’s a specific topic you’d like me to explore, feel free to send me an email—I’d love to hear your thoughts.